Reflections, reflections…

October 1, 2009

DH always remind me how carefree and very spontaneous wife I was before our son came into our lives. I guess the word ‘worry’ was born the day we had our son!

Do Less planning and worrying and future thinking. Spend more time in the moment. We worry too much, and it does us no good. We think about things that haven’t happened, instead of what’s happening now. And while some planning is necessary, too much of it is a waste of time — there’s no way to predict the future, and trying to control every little thing that’s going to happen is futile. Learn to go with the flow, look for opportunities, find the natural path of things, and do what is needed in the moment. You can’t control outcomes, but if you learn to work more fluidly (instead of rigidly following plans), you can get to outcomes that are good.

So yea, I am a work in progess in terms of letting go of all my worries :) And this blog will serve as keepsake of my self improvement’s milestones.

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