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		<title>Raincheck: 75 Ways to Be Unhappy Forever!</title>
		<link>http://www.reflectionsreflections.com/2011/03/raincheck-75-ways-to-be-unhappy-forever.html</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Mar 2011 11:18:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ysobel</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[God's blessings]]></category>
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1. Dwell on things that happened in the past.
2. Obsess yourself with all the things that might happen in the future.
3. Complain about problems instead of taking the necessary steps to resolve them.
4. Fear change and resist it.
5. Work hard, do your best and then condemn yourself for not achieving perfection.
6. Belittle yourself.
7. Hang out [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Life is too Beautiful.</title>
		<link>http://www.reflectionsreflections.com/2010/12/life-is-too-beautiful.html</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Dec 2010 16:50:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ysobel</dc:creator>
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Today is one of those days when I appreciate life so much I want to hug everyone. I woke up with a good news from my mom, what a perfect way to start my weekend. Truly everything will be alright when you pray and leave everything to God. What I only need now is some [...]]]></description>
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		<title>you say nothing at all.</title>
		<link>http://www.reflectionsreflections.com/2010/11/you-say-nothing-at-all.html</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Nov 2010 04:11:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ysobel</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[differences]]></category>
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Sometimes, I cling on to Quotations when I cannot put words on my thoughts and my inner feelings. Like when you rely on laws, acts such as this Gulf Coast Jones Act and legal representations when odds are tight and you don&#8217;t know the rules. These quotations summed up my thoughts today&#8230;
“We can never judge [...]]]></description>
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		<title>YOU.</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Nov 2010 01:26:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ysobel</dc:creator>
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This is so true.
Do you agree?
Seriously, the feat on losing weight and weight woes, generally on women can be taxing. Some would even dare to take diet pills to get instant results. But are you doing this for yourself or are you trying to impress people around you? If losing weight will boost your confidence [...]]]></description>
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		<title>who cares attitude.</title>
		<link>http://www.reflectionsreflections.com/2010/07/who-cares-attitude.html</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jul 2010 00:44:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ysobel</dc:creator>
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Before I check on lipozene, can you truly say to yourself these words: &#8220;WHO CARES?&#8221; about criticisms from other people. You see, my mom and bestfriend share this same concept about people who are trying to destroy you with their negativity but being the people-pleaser (which I am trying to rid of) that I am, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Personality Tips</title>
		<link>http://www.reflectionsreflections.com/2010/05/personality-tips.html</link>
		<comments>http://www.reflectionsreflections.com/2010/05/personality-tips.html#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 May 2010 17:17:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ysobel</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[contentment]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[People these days can be so focused on their Physical appearance that they would even take various fat burner pills just so they would look good for others. However, what is more important is our attitude and our relationships. Here is a list of Personality Tips I snagged from Tumblr which we can find handy.
1. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>e.n.o.u.g.h.</title>
		<link>http://www.reflectionsreflections.com/2010/01/e-n-o-u-g-h.html</link>
		<comments>http://www.reflectionsreflections.com/2010/01/e-n-o-u-g-h.html#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 15:59:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ysobel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[After years of battling people-pleasing personality, a dear friend finally made me realized why I should stop people pleasing and being so overly-nice.  She even said that I should learn the art of being SNOOTY, silly hee hee. Seriously, I really want to get rid that part of me because some people tend to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Stop Being a People Pleaser</title>
		<link>http://www.reflectionsreflections.com/2009/12/stop-being-a-people-pleaser.html</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Dec 2009 02:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ysobel</dc:creator>
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Think of five times when you did or said something that did not truly reflect your wants and needs, in order to please someone else. Write them down. For each of these occasions, imagine how you would have handled it differently &#8211; to please yourself! What is the worst that could have happened? Write down [...]]]></description>
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		<title>T.H.A.N.K. Y.O.U.! (a thanksgiving entry)</title>
		<link>http://www.reflectionsreflections.com/2009/11/t-h-a-n-k-y-o-u-a-thanksgiving-entry.html</link>
		<comments>http://www.reflectionsreflections.com/2009/11/t-h-a-n-k-y-o-u-a-thanksgiving-entry.html#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2009 03:27:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ysobel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[To all of you who have continuously read what I have been writing in this blog despite maintaining my anonymity, (yes, I still have more than a hundred of hits everyday and there are 3 loyal feeds subscriber) THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart. By maintaining this anonymity, I have been writing my [...]]]></description>
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